Most domestic dogs are friendly, inquisitive creatures whose first instinct is to sniff everything, wag their tails and then move on to the next interesting thing. However, not all dogs are like this; some can react unpredictably if startled or approached incorrectly.
Children, in particular, may not always understand how to interact safely with dogs, which can lead to accidents. Running, shouting, or making sudden movements can cause a dog to become overly excited and jump, chase, or even knock someone over.
To avoid these situations, it’s crucial to understand how to behave around unfamiliar or overly excitable dogs. Two essential techniques that can help are:
- “Be a Tree” – standing still, arms folded, and avoiding eye contact.
- “Be a Stone” – curling up into a ball with hands over the neck if knocked down.
By practising these techniques and teaching them to children, you can reduce the risk of accidents and ensure safe interactions with dogs.
Why Do Dogs Jump or Chase?
Dogs love to play, and chasing is a natural behaviour for them. When they see a child running, their instincts may tell them that the child is part of a game. Even if the dog is not aggressive, an excitable or boisterous dog can accidentally hurt someone by jumping up or knocking them over.
Some common reasons a dog may chase or jump include:
- Excitement – The dog thinks running means playtime and wants to join in.
- Prey Drive – Some dogs, especially herding breeds, have an instinct to chase moving objects.
- Fear or Anxiety – A nervous dog might react to sudden movements by barking or lunging.
- Protectiveness – Some dogs, especially those on a lead, may respond to protect their owner.
By staying calm and still, you show the dog that you are not a threat and not something to chase.
How to Use the “Be a Tree” Technique
“Be a Tree” is a simple but effective method to prevent unwanted interactions with dogs.
When to “Be a Tree”
🚶 While out walking in a park, I was approached by a strange dog.
😟 If a dog makes you feel nervous or uncomfortable.
🐕 If a dog starts chasing you or jumping up.
🎾 If a dog gets overly excited when playing.
How to “Be a Tree”
1️⃣ Stand completely still – Do not move your arms or legs.
2️⃣ Fold your arms – Keep them close to your body.
3️⃣ Look straight ahead – Avoid direct eye contact with the dog.
4️⃣ Count slowly in your head – This helps you remain calm.
5️⃣ Wait until the dog loses interest and moves away.
Most dogs will give a quick sniff before realising you are not interested. They will then move on or be recalled by their owner.
Important: This technique requires patience and confidence. Standing still can feel unnatural, but it works because dogs quickly lose interest in things that don’t move.
How to Use the “Be a Stone” Technique
In rare situations, a dog might knock someone over accidentally or through excitement. Knowing how to stay safe and avoid escalating the problem is essential if this happens.
When to “Be a Stone”
🐶 If a large dog jumps on you and you lose your balance.
🐶 If you trip while trying to move away from an excited dog.
🐶 If a dog knocks you down while playing.
How to “Be a Stone”
- Curl up into a ball – Tuck your knees into your chest.
- Cover your head and neck with your hands – Protect vulnerable areas.
- Stay still and quiet – Do not scream or wave your arms.
- Wait for the dog to sniff and lose interest before slowly getting up.
Most dogs lose interest once they realise you are not playing or reacting. Staying calm reduces the risk of further excitement or rough play.
What NOT to Do Around an Excited Dog
🚫 Do not run – Running encourages chasing behaviour.
🚫 Do not scream or shout – This can excite or startle the dog.
🚫 Do not wave your arms – Sudden movements may make the dog jump up.
🚫 Do not push the dog away – This can become a game for them.
🚫 Do not stare into the dog’s eyes – Direct eye contact can be challenging.
You give the dog a chance to settle down and disengage by remaining calm and still.
Helping Children Interact Safely with Dogs
Children are naturally drawn to dogs and often want to run up to, hug, or play with them. However, not all dogs are comfortable with sudden movements or loud noises, which can sometimes lead to accidents.
To help children stay safe, teach them the following golden rules for dog interactions:
👦 Always ask the owner before approaching a dog – Not all dogs are friendly.
🐕 Let the dog sniff your hand first – This allows them to become familiar with you.
🚶 Walk, don’t run around dogs – Running can trigger a chase response.
🙅 Do not grab or hug a dog – Some dogs do not like being restrained.
👀 Watch for signs of discomfort – If a dog backs away, licks its lips, yawns, or lowers its tail, they may be anxious.
If a child encounters a strange or overly excited dog, remind them to use the “Be a Tree” technique.
Why These Techniques Work
Dogs communicate primarily through body language. By standing still or curling up calmly, you are telling the dog:
🚫 I am not a threat.
🚫 I am not something to chase or play with.
🚫 I am calm so that you can be calm, too.
Dogs respond to energy levels, so if you are calm and quiet, they will be too.
Final Tips for Staying Safe Around Dogs
- Stay calm and confident – Dogs pick up on nervous energy.
- Know when to use “Be a Tree” and “Be a Stone”.
- Teach children how to behave safely around dogs.
- Respect dogs’ personal space and boundaries.
- If in doubt, move slowly and avoid direct interaction.
Most dogs are friendly and well-behaved, but accidents can happen. Understanding dog behaviour and using the proper techniques can ensure your interactions with dogs are safe and positive.
Conclusion
While dogs are wonderful companions, they can sometimes become overexcited or playful in ways that might be overwhelming. Knowing how to handle these situations—whether by “Being a Tree” or “Being a Stone”—can prevent accidents and keep humans and dogs safe.
These techniques benefit children, joggers, and anyone nervous around dogs. By learning to respond calmly and confidently, you can avoid unwanted interactions and ensure you and the dog have a stress-free experience.
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